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Just Said Yes November 2020

Buy dress for bridesmaids?

Nao, on February 21, 2020 at 2:12 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 15

Will you buy dresses for bridesmaids? I know it would be thoughtful to do that but I still want to know how other couples think. Thank you!

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Latest activity by Kelsey, on February 22, 2020 at 11:45 PM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I didn't personally. I've been a bridesmaid twice and both times bought my own dress. I did consult each girl before picking one so their budget was taken into consideration. I ended up picking a color, fabric and length from Azazie so the girls could pick their own dresses and they had about a year to buy it so they could take advantage of sales & discounts & could save up if they needed to. The dresses were from $89-$169. I told them to wear whatever shoes & jewelry they wanted, and paid for their transportation, hair & makeup. My mom hosted the bridal shower & paid for it all, and I contributed a lot to my bachelorette party so I tried to be aware of the expenses for the girls and help towards it.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    As a bridesmaid, I've never had my attire paid for by the couple. We didn't pay for our BP either.

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I didn’t but I’ve heard of people who buy or rent it for them
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    I am not. I only have 2 girls in my bridal party, but I am paying for them to get their hair done so they don't have to worry about that.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    We did not pay for our bridal parties attire. We allowed our bridesmaids to select their own dresses so they could purchase a dress at a cost they felt comfortable with.

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    Dedicated March 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I paid for my girls' dresses, but I want all my bridesmaids to match. I figured since I'm not really giving them much choice (they can choose between two very similar dresses), it would be fair for me to pay. Also, they were only $50 from Amazon.


    I also got them necklaces to wear on the day of. I asked them to wear a specific color/ style of shoe, but they are getting those themselves. They are also on their own for hair and makeup.
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  • R
    Expert May 2021
    Rachael ·
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    I've always paid for my own bridesmaid dress, you can do other things like buying the jewelry or hair.makeup things like that. anyone in a wedding knows they're gonna have to spend some money

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    Savvy August 2021
    Courtney ·
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    My bridesmaids are buying their own dresses.
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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    I didn't pay for my girls' dresses. but i paid for their hair and make up and i bought all their day of accessories.

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    Devoted November 2019
    Emily ·
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    I didn’t buy it for them. I made sure to pick a reasonable place (Azazie) and let them pick their own style.
    I did however pay for their hair and makeup.
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  • Cristina
    Expert April 2021
    Cristina ·
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    I think it's nice if you can fit it in your budget but not necessary. My girls will be buying their own dresses but I will be gifting them hair and makeup.

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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    I did pay for my girls' dresses, because that was the one detail they didn't have much control over. They paid for their hair/shoes/jewelry, and I let them decide what they wanted to do with all of those things.

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  • Meghan
    Beginner May 2021
    Meghan ·
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    I gave my 3 girls a $100 credit towards their dress since 2 of them have young kids and my other BM is my 17yr old cousin who is still a senior in high school
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  • Julie
    VIP February 2020
    Julie ·
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    I paid for my bridesmaid's dresses, but they've all agreed to cover their hair and makeup. They can where whatever accessories they want, but I had a pair of pearl earrings made for each girl, and they're all different.

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  • Kelsey
    Dedicated October 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    No and I’ve never had mine paid for as a bridesmaid either. Not expected at all!
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