BYOB and Potluck - Count me ...

Maybe i should suggest she share her wonderful planning tips here so she can get some honest advice hahaha

What is she going to do if it rains? What a mess.

After 6 pages, the thread has been closed "for review." It turned into a bash-fest, against couples who want to host their guests properly. There was name calling and budget shaming incidents, too numerous to copy and paste.

Clip clop.

That sounds disgusting. And if THAT sounds judgemental?

I don't care. A potluck is never more fun.

I'm usually all for doing what you want. Your friends and family want to support you, after all. Being a proper host is so culture dependent, that you'll always offend somebody. That being said there are some real health issues related to potluck weddings that I would not risk it. I think it's a shame that people who wanted to provide alcohol got bashed in the comments section. Life is too short to base your worth on what people on the internet say.