My guest list is 200 people. I was thinking about having a 2-3 hour "Cake and Punch" Reception after the ceremony serving appetizers, desserts, and drinks and then have a private dinner (no dancing/DJ) at a different venue/restaurant with a smaller group (75 people) of just family and closest friends. I plan to have entertainment for both events using live solo or small group musicians.
But then I want to have an after party later in the evening 9p-12a to include the entire guest list again and serve appetizers and drinks/alcohol but with an actual DJ and dancing. I was wondering if anyone thinks that's bad etiquette.
I think I want it this way to save on costs on dinner. Also, if there are people that don't want to stay up late for drinking and dancing, they can still celebrate with me earlier in the day.