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Amber
Dedicated September 2016

Cake smash in face - yes or no?

Amber, on February 27, 2016 at 11:02 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 76

I'm curious on opinions about whether or not you ladies are planning to smash the cake in your hubby's face. I'm torn on this! Part of me wants to, the other part doesn't. I think it would be fun, but if I chose to I think it won't be super drastic. And what if my makeup is messed up?!

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Latest activity by Gina, on January 23, 2018 at 10:16 AM
  • JamieLynn
    Master June 2016
    JamieLynn ·
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    Nope for me!

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  • Kristy
    Master November 2015
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    I kinda did.... lol Hubby doesn't even like sweets, poor guy!

    He was nice and didn't smash it all over my face and wreck my makeup!

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  • Ostrichka
    VIP February 2016
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    No. We nicely fed cake to each other.

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  • kahlcara
    Master August 2013
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    No, we fed each other.

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  • jessica
    Expert April 2016
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    I'm not, and I am so worried my FH will do something like that, I almost want to have him sign something saying he swears he won't do it or he has to idk buy me a car or something!!

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  • Debra
    VIP May 2016
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    This is really a choice based on your & FH's personalities. What does your FH think about doing it? Would you surprise him or let him know in advance that you plan to do it? Would you want FH to do it to you?

    We are not doing a cake smash. Neither of us think it is fun or funny, and we don't want to get messy or ruin clothes/hair/makeup.

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  • Amber
    Dedicated September 2016
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    He said he won't unless I say he can. I like the idea of just sweetly feeding eachother. That is more what I'm leaning towards. No mess, and more romantic

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  • Marsup
    Devoted October 2016
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    No we will not. We are doing pictures after reception just him and me and if there is cake on me he knows I'll be angry

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  • ReadyToBeARathfon
    Devoted April 2017
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    We are not doing it. I freak out having stuff on my face and I don't want to go retouch my make up. FH is not a big fan of it either, so the choice was easy.

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  • Mrswelch
    Master December 2017
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    We talked and agreed on more of a "cake boop" lol. I'd freak out if I got buttercream frosting on my dress!

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  • Monee_Darnel
    VIP May 2016
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    Absolutely not. I'm all about jokes and fun but I am not a fan of having cake/icing smashed in my face.

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  • A&L
    Master April 2017
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    No, I want my makeup until the end of the reception. It's fair game when we get back to the hotel.

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  • Bride2b
    VIP September 2016
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    We will not smash cake in each other faces.

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  • km90
    Super June 2016
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    No. I HATE that tradition so much.

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  • Zoey
    Devoted August 2017
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    We never planned on doing it. But, one way we show each other we love each other is doing Eskimo kiss's. I told him it would be a cute photo op. to dab frosting on each others noses, and rub them together afterward. He said he liked it. I almost did it to my poor hubby the day of our wedding, but quickly decided not to. I paid to much money on the makeup to have it get ruined (be it even just a nose) and walk around the rest of the night with smeared makeup on my face. So, no we never did a cake smash with each other.

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  • WitchyWoman
    Dedicated April 2016
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    It's a big no for us. We don't even feed each other at home, I don't want to do it in public. But it all depends on your personalities.

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  • MzRosaLu
    Master July 2016
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    Not a fan of this tradition at all.

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  • GetCarriedAway
    Expert December 2016
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    I hate smushing the cake...I know a lot of people think it's funny and cute but I dont. The whole point of the cake feeding is that "you trust that person enough that you would eat out of their hand." Smushing it ruins the whole point. I've already told my FH that if he does it then I will leave for the honeymoon without him.

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
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    Never! I told him it would be grounds for divorce.

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  • Laura
    Champion June 2010
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    Definitely not for us. We both hated the idea.

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