I’m still a ways out from dress shopping so I have time to decide. I have a wonderful relationship with my FH family and I love them all so much! I am trying to decide if I should invite my FMIL to go dress shopping with me and my mom. Here are some details:
-My FMIL lives in another state, but would at least try to be there for dress shopping if invited
-My FH middle brother is getting married in June, they also live in a different state than FMIL and she attended the dress shopping for FSIL
The main reason I’m torn is because I’m an only child, and throughout all my life every prom and formal dress shopping was just me and my mom. So it seems fitting that wedding dress shopping is once again, me and mom. It’s kind of become one of our “things” throughout my life and I treasure those memories I have of spending time with her doing these things. I want to do a first look with my bridal party, so I won’t be having any of them come with me. Aside from now feeling a little obligated to invite FMIL dress shopping (because she was included in FSIL) I’m worried that if I don’t at least invite her it will look bad as well as hurt her feelings, which I don’t want to do. She doesn’t have any girls so this would really be the only opportunities she has to do something like this. But I don’t really want to give up the last time my mom and I will have to do something like this together just us, which I realize is a bit selfish of me It’s hard asking for advice from FH, my mom, and my friends, because they all just tell me the same thing which is “You don’t have to bring anyone with you that you don’t want to”.
I guess I just want to know if anyone else has dealt with this, and if so what you decided to do?
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