I came up with the idea to get personalized cookies to ask all of my girls to be my bridesmaids. I got the cookies and asked them all but the last one I asked was my FH sisters. There is a bit of rocky past between her and I but we are on good terms and I thought it would be a nice gesture to ask her to be a part of our special day. All of my girls had a great reaction to the cookies except her. I think I caught her off guard and when I gave them to her, her response was "um what? no. I don't know. What will I have to wear? I mean yes. I guess I don't have a choice now. You didn't have to get me these". Knowing her, I just left the conversation at that and was speechless at this point. Then while we are at her house, she proceeds to tell my FH multiple times that if he can't find the same number of groomsmen that she doesn't need to be included. My FH didn't see anything wrong with the situation at the time so he didn't say anything. I very much hate confrontation and I don't know what to do at this point. Now I don't feel like I want her to be apart of the wedding because of her reaction and I don't want ANY drama especially at my wedding. What do I do?
I also feel that I should add that I chose to ask her to be apart of the wedding over other people that I wanted to be apart of the day too because I felt as though it was important that I included someone from his family. Now I regret asking her and wish I asked the other girl that I had on my list.
