Cancelled May 14, 2022 Wedding

I totally had to cancel my wedding bc my future in-laws are I don’t even know how to describe them. My MIL is overbearing & doesn’t know how to accept NO as any answer. She was planning the wedding of HER dreams and inviting everyone & their mother on OUR dime. Yes, she offered to pay extra money but that’s beside the point. My fiancé and I are paying and it’s OUR wedding!!! Her two sons have been married before and so it’s not like this is a first wedding!


She was told NO by ME, then my wedding planner then when that didn’t work, she went in on my fiancé. Then his dad went in on him. He was stressed out and didn’t communicate it to me and started belittling me. I was already stressed out bc if his mother…
Him being an a-hole to me was the icing on the cake. For someone to say they’re big on communication but then keep it secret that his family is bashing him every day when he goes home, then turn around and take it out on me over the weekend when I see him, isn’t cool.
This past Friday I told my wedding planner to cancel it. Lost deposits and $2k for my dress and veil out the window 😒 I almost made it y’all 😭