This feels so stupid as I had a lovely wedding for the most part - it was the best day of my life! (Although there was some drama with some (now ex) friends which I put such a downer on how I look back on the wedding afterwards)
Anyway, the more I think about the wedding the more regrets I have and I cannot shake the feeling off at all. Obviously when I voice this to my husband he gets upset as to him it was the most perfect day despite the details!
For example, we had to change photographers last minute as our one who we met several times over the year planning ended up in hospital. So the new photographers took great photos but they just were not as creative or fun as I would like.
I’m my florist pinned the buttonholes on the groom and groomsmen for them….. and now when I look at photos I realise that the groom’s buttonhole was given to the groomsmen!! He has a significantly more detailed button hole compared to my groom and I can’t stop focusing on this!
My decorator keeps chatting on instagram about details that make the perfect day and makes her the perfect decorator… looking back at my photos I noticed that some of the basic things she mentioned (like steaming linen) was just not done.
Obviously in the high of the wedding I left them all good reviews.. but now the photos are out I really am noticing the things I am unhappy with and I just don’t know what to do. I want to forget all the small imperfect things and really focus on the good but I am struggling!
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