I’m not sure if this is just venting, but did anyone else feel like they just “cannot win” while wedding planning?
We’ve been at it for 5 months and are so burned out that we are now starting to plan a Europe elopement with just close family (less than 15ppl). Now, my fiancé wanted a big wedding of over a hundred and is very traditional in his wedding wants (so this tells you how over it we are that he came up with the idea).
But even that is being made about the family and not us. Starting to feel like we are between a rock and a hard place with people disapproving of us spending on a big wedding in America but also now unhappy and acting like we are an inconvenience for planning a small one for Europe (that we even said we would pay for most of for everyone’s travels, lodging, etc.).
Anyone else start to feel helpless about something they were so excited about? Any suggestions or brides who felt this and had a solution?
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