My FH and I really want to get married in Pittsburgh. It is where he is from (we live in CT) and it is a special place for us for a number of reasons. My parents want to have the wedding in CT (where I am from). However, most of my family is scattered about (CT, MA, AL, OH, MI, Canada) whereas my FH’s family is all within an hour drive from the city.
For so many reasons, it makes more sense to have the wedding in Pittsburgh but my mom is calling it “heartbreaking” that I don’t want my wedding to be in CT. She went as far as to say they won’t contribute as much money if it’s not here because they wouldn’t be “hosting” and instead my in laws would be hosting. In my eyes, whoever is paying is hosting.
I’m not sure how to approach the conversation again because last time it ended with my mother in tears and my father stonefaced. But we’re running out of time to get them on board before we start touring venues.
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