I've read a lot of discussions about personal attendants and am wondering if people really think it's that bad to ask two people to be personal attendants?! Here's my situation... my fiancee has a sister, I have 2 sisters that are still pretty young (21 and 18), my brother is married so I also have a sister-in-law, and he has 2 kids that will be junior bridesmaids. With just those people alone that is 6 bridesmaids and zero of my best friends! I have 4 other really close friends that I would want in my wedding but with that many sisters I don't know what to do! I thought about asking my brother's wife and one of my friends to be personal attendants because I really need help with decorations and planning. I am not spending money on a planner or coordinator. We are trying to do everything ourselves including the decor. So I was thinking of having 6 bridesmaids, 2 junior bridesmaids that would walk together first, and then 2 personal attendants so everyone can be involved. I don't want to offend anyone either so need advice. Thank you!!
Btw the 2 that I thought of having as personal attendants are both amazing decorators and both of them get along really well. And also note that I have NO IDEA what I'm doing when it comes to Wedding planning. I have never been a girly girl and literally need as much help as possible with all of this.