Can’t decide on venue!!

I love the first venue (bottom picture)

Do you have a theme for your wedding?

They are both beautiful venues, and I don't think you'll go wrong picking either one. Your list of pros and cons is great, because it makes the decision less emotional.

I think I would consider the "people able to stay there, and lots to do" factor as pretty important, if you do have a lot of people coming from out of town. My daughter's wedding last weekend was like a huge family reunion for lots of people, and it was fun that we all stayed at the same hotel, and had a gathering space that we put to good use. There is a lot more to a wedding (when it's out of town) besides just the ceremony and reception, and it's good to consider your guests' situations.

Will most of your guests be able to afford the lodging at the first venue?

I think I would lean toward that first venue, if you are able to afford it in your budget, and if you first see what the rain plan would be.

The factor that stood out the most for the second venue was the great staff that has all the contingency plans in place. That is reassuring.

I love the ceiling & windows in the second picture, it seems like you are outdoors! It just depends on what you want most I guess! It was more important to us that we had a bride suite & groom's suite and room for 200 people rather than other things, so I think it just depends what is most important to you both!