Hi all! I’m in the bridal party and I just had my baby 4 weeks ago. He came 9 weeks early. He’s currently in the NICU and I am a mess. I don’t know what to do.
She doesn’t really have any family attending. I’m her longest time friend. This is her second marriage.
Everyone is telling me no but I feel so much guilt. But then I feel guilt from being so far from the hospital. The wedding is about 75 miles away. I also don’t know if I’ll have time to pump. The freeway closure makes traveling to my baby in the drop of a hat very difficult.
My husband has decided to not attend so he can be close to baby but I’m the mother. Shouldn’t I be close as well? I’m sure I have postpartum depression and anxiety and having to put on a fake face and fake smile just does not excite me.
What would you do? Or anyone been in this situation? ☹️
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