Well the secrets out because why would I even trust my FH to keep his mouth shut about things that don't involve him? Beats me. He blabbed to my mother yesterday that the two bridesmaids told me the shower date. I am sure you've all read that I basically begged my mom to tell me because I never wanted a surprise in the first place. I don't like being the center of attention, needed to get ready, put on my outfit, etc. In general this entire process has been so stressful. She texted me yesterday asking why would the two bridesmaids tell me and that they can't read the invite I guess. I lost it on her. I don't know why everyone has to yell about everything when they are simple tasks. I was already fighting with FH about tuxes. For something that was supposed to be a surprise, I sure heard a hell of a lot about it... from my own mom. Constantly texting me oh well will your shower dress come in by this week? Did you get your dress? Are you doing a garter, can you decide in the next week? To which I responded yes I am wearing one but don't know if we are doing the toss. I said is that supposed to be a gift, because I'd much rather get one myself that I know I like. If it was going to be a surprise this legit isn't the way to do it and should probably explicitly state on the invite, not "the bride will arrive a half hour after everyone else". Okay, to me that doesn't say surprise I could've known the exact location and driven there myself for all they know. I got scolded for getting thank you cards that didn't match the shower invite all because BB&B screwed up and sent a gift to my house that wasn't meant to come to me (which btw my mom texted me about this as well) so I needed to write a thank you card. I am just over it. I am not excited at all. My mom is probably gonna be mad at me now and probably say something reprimanding to my bridesmaids tomorrow even though she has no place to. She can't even spell their names right even though she's had them involved in prepping for this shower. I just don't get it. There are things I care about and things I really could/should care less about; a party that I didn't even plan being one of them. End rant.
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