Help me solve a debate between my husband and I
We got married on 5/8. We just sent a wedding photo to our stationery vendor to print our Thank You cards, but are thinking it could be about 2 weeks before we get the cards back and mailed out, etc.
I think we should wait to cash the checks until Thank You cards are sent. It just feels kind of tacky to me to cash them before properly acknowledging the gift. He thinks it would be more annoying to our guests to hold onto the checks for another couple weeks before cashing them (which at that point would be about a month after our wedding date).
What do you think?