Having so many problems finding a vendor or caterer. Most places are charging $40 a person! I simply can't afford $3000 for a Ceremony and Reception site and $4000 for food. I was trying to keep my whole budget under $5000 that includes dress, decorations,food, photography everything. I am afraid I won't ever get married because of the cost. But I don't think I should have to go without a wedding and just go to the courthouse.