Before you read any further, if yuou are Catholic and are NOT living together I really don't want to hear your judgements/criticism, that's not the point of this post please move on. Continuing, we recently moved in together and we were both raised catholic and went to catholic universities. Obviously, living together is a major no-no for catholics and we can't find a priest to marry us. My friends who have lived together and got married in the catholic church just lied about it. To me lying to a priest is worse. Any Catholics out there who have lived together, how did you deal?