My partber and I are a little awkward. We want to be in nature. In winter. In the PNW. We agreed we would write down exactly what we wanted and not think aboutt guests. After all thats what everyone has told us to do, right?
So the day before, we get lodging for immediate family. Small dinner.
Day of, relax until the ceremony. Warm dress, fuzzy boots, got em. But it'll be on the Oregon coast on December 21st, then we'll drive about 10 minutes down the road for a dinner at a restaurant.
..but that's it. We really just want to eat dinner, go back to the hotel and enjoy the hot tub. We dont want to dance, both of us get anxiety at parties.
Are we bad people for making people stand in the cold then be rewarded with just dinner? Granted it'll be a /good/ dinner, but without entertainment. We decided against a venue because we dont need all the bells and whistles.
Has anyone done something similar? Im happy to soend time with the additional 20 or so guests at dinnertime, but do I really need any entertainment? We honestly cant afford a venue to dance at. And since my family of 3 is living in poverty, I will be paying for their flights and lodging and warm clothes.
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