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Addy
Savvy October 2023

Ceremony hesitation, vent

Addy, on October 26, 2020 at 11:40 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 9
Is anyone else nervous about being at the center of attention during the ceremony? Like I'm excited to marry my fiance and I really want to do a ceremony based around my spirituality, but then I think about our family's watching us for it and I get anxious. We're doing a small ceremony, so its just our parents, siblings, and grandparents, but I'm still nervous.

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Latest activity by Addy, on October 26, 2020 at 1:42 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I think it’s totally normal to be nervous, but once you get to the end of the aisle, you won’t notice anyone else besides your FS!
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  • Addy
    Savvy October 2023
    Addy ·
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    I hope so! Thanks Smiley smile
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    I think its normal

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  • Marissa
    Expert October 2020
    Marissa ·
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    I was also nervous and anxious about being the center of attention! This is definitely normal. But once I started walking down the aisle, all my focus was on my husband. And then once I got to the end I felt like it was just me, the officiant, and my husband there. I didn't pay attention to anyone else.

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  • Meghan
    Expert September 2021
    Meghan ·
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    Think it’s normal. I’m super nervous, but will be doing a first look which I think will help calm my nerves. Fiancé always knows the right way to comfort me so think it’ll be good seeing him first.
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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
    Margaret ·
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    I was nervous, but quite honestly, as your walking up the aisle to your FS, you don't see or notice anything other than the person you're about to marry. And when it came to the vows, my eyes were only on him, so if you heard me, great; if not, not worried because the only person who mattered was my husband.

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  • Sarah
    Super August 2021
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    I'm super nervous, I really don't like too much attention. I get a little red if I have more then like 2 people paying attention to me so I can only imagine what shade of red I'll be during my ceremony. 🤣😂
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I'm nervous as well! I'm a shy person, and I really don't like being center of attention. However, we're doing a first look to help ease some of the fears, and my fiance will be walking me down the aisle, so it'll be helpful to have him there. I think I'll be nervous right up until we walk down the aisle, but I am confident that I won't feel as nervous once the ceremony starts.
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  • Addy
    Savvy October 2023
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    I'm more nervous about the standing at the alter than the walking up lol
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