Hey!
So my fiancé and I are planning a wedding for February 2023 but we are considering getting married legally beforehand because we don’t want to wait any longer. The only thing is we want to keep it a secret just between us and 1 or 2 of our closest people to make it more intimate and special.
This being said, will we still be able to have our ceremony as planned, with vows and ring exchanges?? Would that be tacky? We just don’t want to re-word it as a vow renewal because people may be hurt if they find out we married previously and kept it a secret from everyone. And would an officiant be willing to make it sound like the real ceremony knowing we are already married?
Thanks!!
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