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Laura
Savvy April 2022

Ceremony Readings to Honor Groom's Deceased Mother

Laura, on August 5, 2019 at 11:06 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 3

Hi everyone,

I've seen lots of things on here about ways to honor deceased family members (photos, candles, flowers) but I'm wondering if anyone has had the officiant or another family member do a reading during the ceremony (or maybe at the rehearsal dinner or reception) that honored them. My FH's mother passed away from cancer a couple years ago and it was very hard on everyone. He doesn't like to bring a lot of attention to it. But we've talked about doing something (not too over the top) to honor her. If anyone has any readings ideas, or any other ideas, let me know Smiley smile

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on August 6, 2019 at 7:35 AM
  • Eva L.
    Dedicated March 2022
    Eva L. ·
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    My fiancé mom passed away almost three weeks ago, we are using the mother and son space to make a speech in her honor.
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  • Florida Marlins
    Expert October 2017
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    My advice? Save it for the rehearsal dinner. The wedding ceremony is a time of joy. Your hubby's late mom will be on everyone's mind enough, no need to call attention to it. Trust me, EVERYONE'S emotions will be heightened. You won't need the stress.

    I always say: "I did not show up to that funeral and turn it into a wedding, don't turn my wedding into a funeral."

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
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    Hey there Laura.

    This is a really sweet idea Smiley heart

    If you found an appropriate poem you love, however, didn’t want to have it read aloud and would like to keep it low-key, perhaps you could include it in the wedding programs with a picture of your FH’s mom.

    One of my favorite memorial poems is ‘I Thought of You Today’.

    I thought of you with love today

    but that is nothing new

    I thought about you yesterday

    and days before that too,

    I think of you in silence

    ...I often speak your name

    All I have are memories

    and your picture in a frame

    Your memory is my keepsake

    with which I’ll never part

    God has you in His keeping

    I have you in my heart.

    To make it fit better, you could change all the ‘I’s’ to ‘We’.

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