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Dedicated July 2018

Ceremony seating- blankets?

Kristi, on June 24, 2018 at 3:26 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 31
Sorry its soo long!!
1 week till my wedding!!
Soooo i have got mostly positive feedback on my ceremony seating untill yesterday. So i really want some honest opnions on how you would feel if you showed up to an outdoor wedding and were asked to sit on a blanket in the grass... lol
The wedding is a totally laid back picnic wedding. We are getting married at an outdoor venu with a pond and several gazebos and a huge deck off the banquet room. So 99% of the wedding will be outdoors. There is a little path thats takes you over to the pond and we are getting married at the end of it under the trees. On both sides of the path its all nice grass. When i was looking at the chairs they had for us to use for outdoor seating they are ugly!! So i decided to get a ton of blankets and sheets and spread them out all through the grass and everyone can hang out and sit on those. I did get two really cute wood benches to put up front off to the side for grandparents so they dont have to sit on the ground. We also have a big gazebo that seats about 25 that people can also sit it. So they dont have to sit in the grass. We are having a bonfire in the evening and will have several sets of cornhole set up. We also dont have a sit down dinner we are doing buffet stlye and they can eat whenever they are hungry and sit indoors or out.

So i feel for the type of wedding we are having the blankets would look awesome. I want some honest feedback from people who dont know me and wont be afraid to hurt my feelings. Thanks so much everyone!!

Pictures were my inspiration.

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31 Comments

Latest activity by Shaunte, on June 25, 2018 at 10:41 AM
  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    Honestly I would not want to sit on the ground in a dress. No one will notice what the chairs look like except for you.
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  • HowCo Industries
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    HowCo Industries ·
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    I'm totally down with this! It is not for everyone, but me, my family and my crowd would just enjoy it.
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  • K
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    Kristi ·
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    They are bright blue!! The look like chairs from a highschool with the metal legs! Lol
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  • Jessica
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    Jessica ·
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    I personally would prefer chairs.
    FH just got back from a hockey tournament with shoulder and knee injuries so I know that sitting on a blanket wouldn't work for him.
    If you have older guests and/or guests with chronic pain, I don't believe the blankets would work either
    I believe that chairs aren't there to be cute, they're there so that I can rest my butt on top of them comfortably 😊
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  • Carol
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    Eh, I could go either way. The grandparents that’s nice and thoughtful... but how will the people sitting on blankets see past them?
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  • Noelle
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    I would not want to sit on the ground no matter what I'm wearing. If you are going to have seats for 25 people then you need seats for everyone. The blue metal chairs would be fine, no one would care about what they look like, it's so much more comfortable than sitting on a blanket on the ground.
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  • K
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    Kristi ·
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    The granparents are off to the the side up front so noone is behind them. There is a pavillion with seating and that will be behind all the blankets.
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  • Lacy
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    I'd honestly rather ugly chairs. I'm only 28 and sitting on the ground for more than a few minutes starts getting uncomfortable (old back injury). I guess you can't guarantee that everyone, young and old, can handle sitting that long without support.
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  • K
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    Kristi ·
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    See most of my crowd would like it also. We are having kegs outside so everyone can grab a beer and go sit on the blanket. I just had someone yesterday say it sounds stupid. And like I said there is seating in the gazebo with chairs. So its not like they have to sit on the ground. We also have the deck off of the banquet room we can use for more seating if we need it.
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  • K
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    Kristi ·
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    We only have FH grandparents and they have a special seat. Then about 90% of the guestlist is under 30. Im just debating if i should go rent chairs now
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  • Kiwibride
    Super November 2018
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    I vote chairs. I don't like sitting on the grass in nice clothes personally and you will likely find that more people than you realize have physical problems preventing them from sitting comfortably on the ground.

    For example my dad had spinal surgery years ago and still takes pain medication for it. Most people don't realise that though because he doesn't mention it. Yes he could go sit in the extra seating but he'd feel exposed and isolated as everyone would know something was wrong with him. He'd also likely be separated from who he was there with because there wouldn't be enough seating for injured people and their dates/family. I also know many people with past knee operations that could give them problems or minor back problems that would make it uncomfortable but would sit on the ground anyway because they don't want to risk someone worse off miss out on the seat.

    I think the blankets are a cute idea but not at the expense of making your guests uncomfortable (mentally or physically).
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  • Tiff Rusnak
    Expert June 2018
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    I think you should use the chairs. Looks aside, it sounds like if you don't use the chairs, there's going to be people sitting all over the park. If I were you, I would want to organize the seating to provide everyone some structured seating and a good view of my nuptials. It's a fun idea, I just wouldn't want to try it out on my wedding day
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
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    This is a HUGE no for me. I would not care how ugly the chairs are, I would take a chair over sitting on a blanket any day. My spine is fused and I literally am not physically capable of sitting on the ground. (If you didn't know me well, you would not know this about me.) If we arrived somewhere and realized that was the plan, we'd likely leave. Even without physical issues, if someone expected me to sit on a picnic blanket -- say for a 4th of July picnic -- I'd be wearing shorts & a t-shirt, not the sundress I'd likely wear to what I expected to be a casual wedding.

    You asked for "honest opinions" and mine is use the chairs! Besides, I'm not guessing mis-matched blankets & sheets look a lot better than blue chairs....

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    Kristi ·
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    They also only had about 35 chairs. So we will still be using the deck and gazebo for seating no matter what. So having everyone everywhere is going to happen regardless. Unless i rent chairs from somewhere. I just thought the blankets for some seating would look nicer in pics than the chairs all through the grass. The space is small so no matter where you are you can see. And the entire ceremony is no more than 20 minutes. Its gonna be hot so we are letting everyone grab a beer b4 the ceremony. We also were going to fold up the blankets than place them by the fire pit so people could use them to sit in the grass and eat dinner by the pond or sit by the fire in the evening. Im just wondering if its worth the money to rent 70 chairs for 20 minutes. Im not sure what it would cost.
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
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    Also, if someone you know finally told you they think this is "stupid," listen to them! It's likely other guests who have heard about your plan thought the same thing and either didn't want to hurt your feelings and/or figured you'd realize what a bad idea this is on your own. It sounds like someone finally figured time was getting short and they had to speak up. It would still be a bad idea if the venue had no chairs and you couldn't afford to rent them, but not using chairs because you think they are "ugly" would really tick me off as a guest.... REALLY??? Your aesthetics/tastes are more important than letting the venue provide me with a chair they HAVE on site????

    ETD: The things you'll often see cited on WW regarding what is minimally REQUIRED to host guests are: food, beverage, protection from weather, and a "chair for every butt". Based on what you've shared, your current plan is people sitting in full sun on the ground -- you're potentially missing two of the four essentials. I'd try to fix what you can in the time left. Good luck!

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  • Tpatb
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    I would immediately go to the back & stand over sitting. Just sitting on the ground in a dress would be uncomfortable to me, I couldn’t imagine my grandmother (or any elders) sitting in the grass & I honestly immediatley thought of ants when I read this & like some of PP I have back problems. Your guests may feel different.
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  • AQuixoticBride
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    Honestly, if I showed up at a wedding and this was the set up, I would probably be really upset. I am pretty laid back, but I have some pretty bad arthritis in my back and this would guarantee a night of pain for me (I'm sure most people wouldn't know that about me because I work out and do all sorts of physical stuff). I hate that I have that issue, but I do. I would at least want a head's up so I could bring the ugly chair that I take to Shakespeare in the Park with me. I do think the blankets are a cute idea, but I would want the majority of guests to have a choice whether or not to use them. If it were me, I would offer the chairs for the ceremony and then set up blanket picnic areas that people can use during the reception if they want to.

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  • starsinwaves
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    I generally don't mind sitting on a blanket for the length of a ceremony, but in a dress it's just a big no. You have to stay in a certain position so everyone doesn't see your business and it gets super uncomfortable. Just use the chairs so you're not sacrificing guest comfort for your pictures.

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    Christina ·
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    Honestly, I'm pretty flexible if the couple is happy I tend to be happy after all it's your day. I like how it matches your picnic theme too. I've been to weddings where we all stood, why not sit on the grass. I think it's nice and unique However, if you haven't already you may want to find a way for people to know it's coming so they don't show up in an outfit that isn't good for sitting, or make it known that your wedding is casual so people can feel comfortable to not where dresses/skirts.

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  • OG Gretchen
    Super June 2018
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    I would not sit on the ground. If there was no place available to sit, I would stand up wherever there was a spot. This is a case of letting your vision overrule basic comfort of your guests.

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