Do I have your attention 
Ok my husband and I have only been married almost weeks but we have been together for 20. He has cheated on me in the past but mistakes happen so I forgave him and we worked on our relationship. He is an amazing person with a super friendly personality so girls fall for him fast. So after we posted on facebook that we were married I was a very bad girl and signed into his messenger account from his old phone and saw that a girl from his past (not one he cheated with) had been messaging him. I have talked to him before about how I don't think its appropriate for him to her and he cut her from his life for about 3 years but now since she saw we were married she started messaging him. if I tell him I snooped he will say that Im digging for ways to ruin us. I really want to message this girl and in a not very nice way tell her to stay away.
So I could really use some advice. if I talk to my family they will dislike him so instead I turn to you!! HELP!!!!!!!
