Hi everyone!
I am newly engaged to my FH after 7 years of dating. We are moving slow in the wedding process as we don’t even have a date set yet but we’re working on that.
My biggest debate right now is having a church ceremony or a non religious ceremony. I personally grew up Catholic but do not practice or attend church currently. I have been baptized, had first communion and confirmed in the Catholic Church. I don’t necessarily want to be married in a Catholic Church even though that would be the ideal situation for my family and their beliefs. But when it comes down to it, this is our wedding and our day.
My FH is not a religious person but was baptized in a non-Catholic church. I don’t want to pressure or force him into a church wedding by any means but upon my FH asking my father for approval in proposing to me, my father had a request we get married in a church. (He did not specify Catholic Church but simply in a church) which my FH was totally respecting of and fine with doing as am I.
I guess I’m looking for advice on if anyone has been married in a church that you don’t practice or attend regularly? Ideally we’d like to have the ceremony in a non-Catholic church but we do not attend any church services regularly and to be completely honest I don’t think we will in the future either. (Please no judgement here)
Any advice or recommendations would be so greatly appreciated. This is the hardest part of beginning to plan our wedding and I just would appreciate any feedback. Thanks in advance!
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