Hi everyone,
So I have been trying to figure out what I should do. My significant other is in the military and is currently on deployment so this has started having conversations of when we would get married a few months earlier then it would of happened if he wasn't deployed.
We plan on getting married right when he gets back it just being a civil ceremony so that he can move out of the base housing and can live together and other financial reasons. Since I have started planning it but I want him to be a part of the process. Though would be people be mad if I'm putting on the invitation we are having our wedding a few months later? We aren't going to hide that we are legally married but also not going to say that we are married just engaged unless asked like on FB. Since technically it would be a vow renewal but we would be treating it as our true wedding day.
If the military wasn't a part of this we wouldn't be having this issue. Just wanted to know all of your opinions or if I'm just overthinking this.