Co ed bachelor and Bachelorette party

I don't understand. "I'd be more comfortable knowing I'm not going to be around my fiance"

well then don't have a co-ed party. I don't get it.

It was a typo.

Do what you want! I would just make sure if any of your BP or his GM are helping plan it at all, to tell them what you definitely want/don't want. It seems like you are planning it though, so you may not need that advice :-). I've thought about doing something separate and then getting together, but our people are planing ours, so I am letting them do what they want instead. Maybe have some kind of a game that is guys vs girls, but if the guys are anything like ours, they will just want to drink and all that, no games needed. So, I say maybe dinner or pregaming all together and then separate for the night. Hope it turns out fun!

I think you should do what you (both) want for your party. However, if you are going to split up at the strip club I kind of don't see the point of doing it together. Personally, I don't think guys are really into scavenger hunts although you know your friends. Also, are many of your friends that would be attending this coed bachelor/ette party couples? If so, I think you should ask them if they would be comfortable with the strip club (many women are not). In general, I think women find strip clubs odd and they might not really enjoy it - but again, you know your friends!

We're doing coed in Vegas. Friday night the guys and girls will go separate and do their own thing. Saturday we'll all party at the pool together and do dinner together. I say do what works for you. This works for us. Plus, idk the situation of the people you'd be inviting, but for us a lot of our friends and married and with kids and they've all said it would be easier for them to get one weekend away. And believe it or not this was actually FH's idea.

Friends should be planning this not you. Let them know you'd like co-Ed and let them take it from there