Are there any other second (or more) time around Brides who were totally fine with their relationship then got sudden anxiety/cold feet when you got engaged?
I was Married to my ex-husband when I was 21 back in 2006. We had our two children and divorced in 2011. I’ve been with my now FH since summer 2014 and everything was fine. We got engaged in December 2018 and while I’m happy and excited...I’m also struggling with anxiety, cold feet, general concern over getting married again.
Is this normal or am I alone?? I love my FH dearly, he loves me to moon and back and always makes sure the kids are I are taken care of. My parents like him (they think he’s a little dull as he is more of an introvert than us) and they were never fans of my ex-husband. I know what matters is the most is my feelings towards FH and our interpersonal relationship. I had no issues (major issues, all couples argue over laundry NEXT to the basket lol) when we were dating and early engagement but sending out the STD’s soon makes things “real”.
Any helpful advice is greatly appreciated. I have spoken to my mom and best friends and they all say it sounds like cold feet due to my last marriage not working out and my concerns about this one not working/changing dynamics also.
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