My fiance and I are struggling with this topic for last two years- should we wait longer to get legally married or do a commitment ceremony next year? We have known each other about 17 years, dated the last 6 years, and engaged the last 2 years. The main reason for not being able to have a legal marriage is because of the impact my income would have on his eligibility for student loans. We currently pay a mortgage for my student loans and him losing his funding would delay, if not stop his schooling all together. Due to health problem and the fact that I'm 30, I would like to have children soon but would like our relationship recognized religiously and for our families before having children.
Has anyone gone the commitment ceremony route or suggestion? Just trying to get neutral input as our families seem to have mixed reviews about it.
Thank you