Hi all. I’m conflicted between two ladies in my bridal party. One if them (“M”) is a friend from college who asked me to be one of her 6 bridesmaids. I’m not as close to her as my other friends but I know she really values our friendship (she told me as such) and she would be honored to be asked
My other friend (“P”) did ~not~ ask me to be a bridesmaid but she only had 3. I’m closer to her than M, but for some reason I’m having reservations about asking her. I’m not sure why... maybe deep down I think it would be odd to ask her if I wasn’t in hers? But if she had more than 3 I feel I would have been asked.
So my options are just M, just P, or both. Would I regret not asking one or both of them if I didn’t? Would I regret asking one or both if I did?
Insights would help!
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