Has anyone else noticed that when couples say they wrote their own vows…. they aren’t actually vows? I’ve been noticing this at every wedding I have attended recently, as well as most of the weddings on reality TV wedding shows. Vows are a list of promises you are making to one another. (Hence, in traditional vows you “vow” to love and to cherish… till death do you part.. etc etc). But now whenever I see ceremonies where couples have written their own “vows”, they are really just speeches. They tell how they met their spouse, how much they love them, share funny little anecdotes, etc. That’s cute and all… but those aren’t VOWS. Does this bother anyone else, or is it just
me? LOL I cringe inside every time I hear “The couple has chosen to write their own vows”… followed by vow-less speeches. It’s like a teacher asking you to go to the chalk board and solve a problem, but instead you stand at the front of the class and tell everyone why math is your favorite subject. That’s great and all, but you didn’t solve the problem LOL