Hi everyone just wanted to know how December 2020 wedding are doing because am over here feeling so stressed. So we are in Florida and having our wedding close to Fort Lauderdale. We were going to have it this month (October) but pushed it to December and with the Covid going back up i spoke to my fiance about pushing it again but he does not want to. Our list went from 90 to 47 people for a big venue which is fine since we have to be distant. I wanted to do 1 maid of honor and 2 bridesmaids but he has more friends so it was hard for him to pick so we decide to do just the maid of honor and best man. Unfortunately we are not sure if the best man will be able to make it that day as he is in the army and he has already asked if he can take that day and they have not responded to his request. So we are in the air i don't know what to do if to add the bridesmaids or not. One of my friends who just had a beautiful baby girl last month, would be my bridesmaid but i am wondering if it would be too much for her right now. I have not bought the dresses for my maid of honor or flower girl yet since i want to make sure the dresses are all the same color (Emerald green). The venue is already mostly decorated all we would need to do is put the flower center pieces and decorate the table for my fh and i. My mother thinks i should hire someone to decorate but Is it worth it hiring someone for that? On top decorator's charge 600+ which i would be paying for. Is a bridal shower a must? I know a lot of people have not been working so i had asked my mother and my maid of honor not to do a bridal shower, did not want to be an extra expense for anyone, but they think i should have one. I just honestly don't know what to do anymore.
Should i start buying the dresses now or should i wait till we know how many people we are having for bridesmaid?
Makeup and hair for bridesmaid/ maid of honor do we pay for that or do they?
I wanted to know if it's rude to do temperature checks on the guest as they arrive?
If you just had a wedding what was it like with covid? Did you have any specific safety measure for your guest? During the dance were people spread? Were you able to dance with your guest?
Thank you