So my cousin was engaged about three weeks after I was. Her mom called my mom today to tell me that they set their date in October, a little more than a month before my date. I have to be honest, I am kind of ticked. It feels like she is just coming in to steal my thunder. Since I was engaged first and my date was set first, I feel like I should be the one getting married first. I don't get why she is in a rush to have her day before mine and steal the spotlight. She didn't even ask me what I thought about all of this before she decided the date. My parents don't think she is doing anything wrong, but my MOH and FH feel the same way I do. What should I do? Can I ask her to reconsider her date so I can have my own time to celebrate, like I had planned?
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