For background, my second cousin ‘Tim’ and his partner ‘Sally’ never knew if they wanted children, it was always a “maybe but don’t think so” question for them. They knew if they wanted children though that it would have to be via IVF because in Tim’s family the men have lazy sperm.
Today I found out by chance that Tim and Sally are going to start their first round of IVF in a few weeks and as much as I’m happy for them that they’ve decided to try for a baby, my heart sank a little bit out of jealousy. Perhaps it was that for some reason I always thought I’d have children before them because they were never fully set on it, but I just couldn’t help but feel the burning pang of jealous rage.
What’s odd about the situation especially is that I’m not even myself ready yet for children - I want them but I’m just not ready to change my life and adapt for a child just yet (and neither is my husband).
Has anyone else felt this ‘unexpected’ jealousy? I’m not even a jealous person myself but I’m just a bit unsure how to feel right now.
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