I have an issue with one of my cousins (related by marriage) and I am afraid that she will want to invite her new boyfriend. I have an issue with this since I am doing a seating chart and she never bothers to talk to me. She also doesn't have my phone number. Something else that bothers me about this even if I tell her no is that she might do it anyways (guest count is 82 people), mainly because she doesn't seem to care about me or what I want. I have invited friends Bf or Gf because they are either living together or are engaged as well, but I am also not the one to speak up. Something else that bothers me is that she also wants to be a bridesmaid which the girls I have are more family to me than she is. (she also never attended my graduation party and has blown me off for another cousin because they go to church together). I really need some help with how to handle this.