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Jillian
Super September 2014

Crazy ex cheating stories?!

Jillian, on November 7, 2013 at 4:05 PM

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I'LL START! My ex in HS and I had been dating for 3 years when he went to Cabo for Spring Break. I had a bad feeling the whole trip but he swore up and down nothing happened. Fast forward six months, some random DUDE messaged me on fb and informed me that my ex bf and his best friend had forced some...

I'LL START!

My ex in HS and I had been dating for 3 years when he went to Cabo for Spring Break. I had a bad feeling the whole trip but he swore up and down nothing happened. Fast forward six months, some random DUDE messaged me on fb and informed me that my ex bf and his best friend had forced some blacked out girl in cabo to give them both bj's. This guy happened to make friends with my boyfriend on the trip and noticed his relationship status when they became fb friends. He also informed me that he witnessed my ex doing a little something with his fingers to a girl on the dance floor and then decided to wipe it on one of his other buddies faces, horrifying. I broke up with him as soon as I found out that night. He was wasted at the time, he threw a lamp and a pillow at me and told ME that I ruined HIS life.

Your turn!!

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  • Ashleigh
    Devoted April 2014
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    I was friends with my ex for 6 years before we started dating. I was madly in love with him and everything was great. After 2 years into our relationship he slowly started to call me and text me less than normal. A friend of mine went to a bar with her boyfriend and saw my ex walking into the same bar with his arm wrapped around a girl who wasn't me. Anyway she snapped a pic on her phone before she went to him and cursed him out. She sent the pic with a text saying "so I found out why he's been so busy lately..." When I called him out on it he tried to justify his cheating by saying that he had a gut feeling that I was cheating on him and it was his way of getting back at me. For the record, he was my best friend and my boyfriend and I would have never treated him that way.

    But if it wasn't for that...I wouldn't have met my FH Smiley smile

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  • Samantha
    Master May 2013
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    I dated a guy in college for a couple of years...typical college relationship. Anyway one night he said he was going to a party. The next day I saw pics on Facebook that a girl that he had previously cheated on his ex-gf with was also at the party. Anyway I logged into his Facebook and started chatting with the girl & pretended to be my ex. I told her that I was super hungover & couldn't remember what happened last night. She preceded to say that they had slept together. So then I killed his fish.

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  • SupermanBride
    Master October 2014
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    My "first" cheated on me with a girl he met on myspace... in 2010.. Who was on Myspace past 2007 btw?? anyways...

    He told me he was going up north for 4th of july. when he was actually going down to tennesse to meet her/concieve their love child... the last time I talked to him was the day before he left. Shut off his phone, changed his number, deleted all his social networking accounts (so I thought) and I never heard from him again until Thanksgiving when he decided to swing by his cousin's house to say sorry.

    At the time we were dating, I was living with his cousin, whom I worked with and was close to her family which was my ex's as well.

    So like a stupid @$$ I took him back, only to find out that 3 weeks later, he did the same shit. Went "up north" for the holidays, left the week before xmas and I never heard from him again.

    Anyways, I cut my loses. So my friend (his cousin) invited me to their family xmas, (cont)

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  • KM
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    I dropped my ex off at a party in college, and as I was leaving, I told him to tell "Arielle" (a girl who wanted him real bad before we started dating) to keep her paws off of him. Well, she heard me say it and made it her mission to make out with him that night. Well, he got wasted, and she got what she wanted. He told me about it the very next morning, which is why I forgave him (and hated her forever), but we ended up not working out anyway.

    The most annoying part?...My mom keeps forgetting that my EX did that, not my current FH, so every once in a while, she will go "Didn't Beau kiss another girl one time?" No mom!! That was my ex...you know, the one you liked more because he was rich??

    Okay, rant over.

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  • Married2013
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    Samantha – but what did the poor fishy do! Haha.

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  • WeddingDestinationItaly
    Master May 2014
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    Besides my FH, I have only had one other boyfriend/relationship. This boyfriend was a high school bf and I was head over in love. Well... he was a cheater. He was in the Marine Corps and I found out he was sleeping with a girl. I found out by his brother. I was at Walmart shopping and saw his brother, I asked where my bf (at the time) was and instead of lying he told me. He told me he was with a girl from school, at her house. My cousin and I left the store and went to the girls house. I rang the door bell and she stepped out and I bitched slapped her. We were rolling around in the yard and the bf came out with a military recruiter. They were pulling us apart, meanwhile my loyal but crazy cousin was smashing his car with a tire pump (for a bike) that was in my car. I look back and laugh at this craziness of it all. Apparently they had been a relationship behind my back and he was helping her get into the military thats why he was with a recruiter that day. A blessing in disguise!

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  • Samantha
    Master May 2013
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    I know. I still feel bad about that.

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  • SupermanBride
    Master October 2014
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    Since I had been close to all of them since way before we started dating. Sure as shit, here comes captain dumb @$$ walking in with his 5month preggo baby mama with this stupid look on his face and his jaw on the floor.

    Needless to say, that xmas sucked, but was also when I started living in the same house as my FH so everything happens for a reason Smiley smile

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  • Out the Window
    Master May 2014
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    Pezzy - that story is sick... I'd leave the sheets in that apartment too.

    Aww Sam! Poor fishy!

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  • Michelle
    Master April 2013
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    When I was 17 I met a 19 year old ( I thought, just turned 19) and we started dated dating, same group of friends... Well liked, had a steady job etc... Great Smiley smile about a year into our relationship my best friend pulled me aside and said she had a friend that was dating him. She gave me the girls number and said she wanted to talk to me because she didnt believe it... I called and the two of us decided to meet up and talk... Me... I'm mean as hell came up with the plan to call him to come hang out so we both texted made plans and he showed up after answering her text. I laid in the back seat. He climbed in... We locked the doors got on the highway and made him talk. Lmao. He essentially told her in front of me that he screwed up and didnt want to be with her and she was just easy. She dropped me off at my house and they left. She sent me a text the next day saying he lft her blah blah blah. So we started tryin to work through things (young and dumb) and we stayed together a year and a half after that. The crazy ex would stalk us and his friends and made things very difficult. One of the friends and I were fixing a car one day and she even tried to slam my head under the hood lol. About a 3 months before our relationship ended we had prom. I invited him and got him a ticket. He stood me up. The prior week his friend was in an accident and he told me my prom night he died. I felt terrible that I had gone when he needed me... It wAsnt true, I didn't find out til a year later... And 2 weeks before I ended it my best friend came to me and said she saw him at a party and they ended up making out.... So he avoided me the next couple weeks only talking online through messenger and finally I got fed up with it and told him no more that I couldn't deal with the cheating. He said well you won't have sex with me (yes I was a Virgin) so he was getting it from my friend and his other ex anyway and all kinds of crap said I was getting chubby and he was going to leave me anyways...

    Years later I found out he would have been 21 when we got together not 19... Which is illegal in my state, his friend didnt die, he was sleeping with my best friend but told her we weren't together, amongst other lies. He was abusive throughout the relationship too. He always apologized and said he didn't mean it. And I was dumb enough to go back. And he tried to get me to move away from my parents with him to another state. Our agreement was I wanted to buy my own car first. I'm so glad I chose college over that loser!

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  • Samantha
    Master May 2013
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    His excuse was that he didn't finish so it didn't count. Something deserved to die.

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  • Jillian
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    These are good. Feels good to rant.

    ill keep adding..

    the ex in my story's dad died a few months later. I was in Martha's Vineyard with my mom and sister so my dad went to his fathers funeral. Last year, ex send me a drunken message saying he couldn't get over the fact I didn't come home for the funeral. I can't get over that lamp in my face.

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  • Married2013
    Master September 2013
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    Samantha – awwww

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  • Tessa&Luke
    Devoted May 2014
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    Gosh some people..... Heres one im not proud of.... SO this is also the cheating boyfriend REALLLY stupid girl...

    When I was 16 I met my ex.. he was my first kiss.. everything... well needless to say I thought he was the one...

    One day out of no where I got this gut feeling he was cheating.. Seriously out of no where.. Well I decided to call him out on it on our lunch break from school and he FREAKED out on me (Later we find out he is bipolar) I got out of his car and I was standing in front of mine. I thought he was going to leave but he ended up throwing the car into drive and pinning me between my car and his.. ambulance had to come.. I had to go to the hospital.. AND HE WAS CHEATING.

    Me being STUPID we got back together 6th months later and stayed/lived together in a very rocky/him still cheating relationship for 3 years after that. Finally I got a brain and we split. I definitely learned a lot from it.

    AND I wouldn't change anything cause it led me to today and I LOVE today

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  • Out the Window
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    SAM- HAHAHAHAH!!!!! I want to use that line one day. "Something deserved to die." Can I ask you HOW you killed poor fishy?

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  • Married2013
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    FutureMrsClark – everything does happen for a reason, he sounds like a major douche!

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  • Out the Window
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    I have to admit. If it weren't for my douchebag ex, I wouldn't have met FH. FH's roommate is my colleague and they both came to help me move into my new apartment Smiley smile

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  • Married2013
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    OTW – noooooo, not the killing the fishy story.

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  • kristenann
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    I was dating this guy in college for about a year and we even talked about getting married. He was working one Saturday night and told me that he was going out after work with coworkers for drinks, so I stayed in with my roomates. The next morning, his roomate was over and was talking with my roomate. Through the wall, I could hear him tell her that "Kristen and Brian sure had a good time last night because all I could hear was them having sex". I effing ran out of my room cursing like a sailor. I stormed out of my apartment and down the stairs to his and banged on the door. I confronted him and he clearly couldn't deny he'd had sex with a coworker. I forced myself into his apartment and into his room to kick the living daylights out of her (mind you, I've never, ever been into a fight. I'm kind of a puss). She wasn't there, so, in my enraged state, I picked up his computer monitor and threw it against the wall, and anything else that wasn't glued down.

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  • rusticbride
    Master May 2014
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    My ex was a d-bag and a dumb kid.. so, luckily, I don't have some of these awful stories that you had. He was just a mama's boy and I COULD NOT live with that for the rest of my life. His mother was crazy attached too. Safe to say I dodged TWO bullets.

    However....

    My Mom's ex put a jacket in her suitcase before they got on a flight back home. Jacket is no problem but in one of the pockets was a bag of weed. He said it wasn't his. They got back together eventually. Yeah, not a fan of his but I have to deal. It's not my life.

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