Crazy ex cheating stories?!

…continuing on to my cheating ex story. I secretly slept around with my ex after I told family and friends I was done with him. So because I was being sneaky our time together happened on maybe a lunch break, in a car, in a parking lot, where I couldn’t pee. I ended up getting a bladder infection but tried to blow it off because I didn’t want to tell my mom, because she would know. It turned into a kidney infection and I ended up passing out in a Applebee’s from the pain. When I got to the emergency room the doctors wanted to test me for a STD. Well the ex ended up coming to the hospital, my mom was so pissed, and I told him that they are testing me for an STD so he better freaking tell me who he’s been sleeping with (he denied he ever cheated on me and said he still wasn’t sleeping with anyone but me) and he still denied it. That night I got a text with a list of names he had slept with – luckily I didn’t have an STD and I got the truth, bastard.

When i was 15 i was dating my now ex-husband (we got married when i was 24) and my dad's girlfriend's son & i were attracted to each other so we kissed. I told my ex and he forgave me. Over the next 17 years i made out with a couple other guys (even having one guy cheat on his girlfriend) and i slept with one. It wasnt the smartest or nicest thing to do.

@Jaimee & @AlmostMrsKing - its the same for me! @Pezzy - thats insane!

Im not proud of any of it but if none of it happened i wouldnt be with FH.

I flushed it.

Samantha - well maybe it lived and went out into the sea, you never know. :-/

I had one ex who, after we had been dating a year, suddenly decided to become a Born Again Christian, which mean that we had to stop having sex (so he said). We broke up for other reasons (a friend alerted me to his posting on match.com, with the Christmas tree we had decorated in the background) shortly after. A couple months after that, I found out through other friends that his GF had a baby - he must've been having sex with someone, just not ME.

You know, WTH is wrong with just telling someone you aren't interested anymore? Dated a former Marine for a long time, and he did the same thing...just dragged things out without breaking them off. Man up!

I've been with FH since I was 16, so I don't have crazy ex stories. However, I hooked up with a guy when FH and I were broken up. Later on, he contacted me to try to get me to have a 3 way with him and his new gf. I was just like ummmm.....well this is awkward.

Oh man. Not my story to tell... but a goodie nonetheless. A good friend of mine from law school started dating a guy our first year. Stupidly, "dating" started with him cheating on his girlfriend with her... not off to a very good start. The guy was in law school with us, and was just a prick. Anyways, him and my friend dated all three years of law school, then our third year of law school, another law school friend of ours was at a hoity toity "gala" and came across this guy- who was there with one of our law school PROFESSORS! My friend texted me and I texted the guys girlfriend and asked her where Chris was at... she said he was with his parents that night. Well, obviously he was not. So that night, I got together with her, broke the news, and she went over to his apartment and basically broke in when he would not let her in, and found him in there with A DIFFERNT girl we went to law school with!!! SCUM BAG- he told all the girls he was single and none of them knew about the others!

I will never understand why people cheat. If you want to see other people..end the relationship so nobody gets hurt.

The only time I was ever cheated on was with my high school boyfriend. I went off to college and he was a Senior in HS. I was home for the weekend and he was standing up in a friend's quinceañera. He took another girl with him as his "date" and told me about it..so I thought nothing of it. A mutual friend of ours was also there and called me during the party to let me know that my boyfriend was making out with this girl in the corner. He took a picture, I showed it to the boyfriend, and he STILL tried to deny it. Such an idiot.

My ex husband, cheated on me our honeymoon weekend, with his bestfriend, who was our only witness, while I had to leave town for a day to complete my "legally married" type of paperwork for the Army (that was required to do the same week). Yep, when I was away blissfully boasting about just married, he was fucking the day away with another woman.... I didnt find out about it until that same whorish bitch was blasting me on myspace b/c we were in the middle of divorce.

That wasnt the only time he cheated too, I found out later, but that's the one that still hurts if I think about it too much.

My "serious" boyfriend in high school and I had been dating for about 6 months. I was away with family for new years eve, and while I was having a great time with my family, a friend that was hanging out at a New Years Eve party with my boyfriend texted a picture of my boyfriend and his other friend's cousin sharing a kiss at the mark of the new year.. I texted my boyfriend immediately and said we are done. He then apparently went crazy and tried chasing the friend down that had texted me the news. My phone died soon after and having forgotten my charger at home I didn't get to turn it back on till 2 days later. When I did there was tons of messages from the ex begging for forgiveness. But I don't deal with anyone who breaks my trust like that!

Oh I have a doozy for ya!!!

My ex bf (the one right before FH) was sooo hot. He was a cop so I thought that meant he was a man of integrity. NO!!!

He was apparently dating and screwing about ten other women while we were together. This man bought me a brand new custom Tahoe, had me try on rings, etc... and the whole time he was fcking around. One of the women contacted me via facebook and somehow she had his FB password and gave it to me. I got into his messages and it was sickening because some of these women were married, mutual friends of ours from high school, and young girls (barely 20 - he was 30 at the time).

I cheated once....but it was the night before I planned to break it off with him anyway and I was sort of taken advantage of by a good friend while I was in an emotionally fragile state. Also, I can't bring myself to feel that guilty because only a couple weeks earlier the ex had screamed at me in front of several of our friends because he was mad at me for telling people I hadn't given him head yet (I was asked if I ever had...I said no... People obviously got the picture). But seriously? D-bag. I stupidly very briefly got back together with him too... Until 2 weeks later he old me he could only have a relationship if we were having sex. I kinda hate him.

I'm not sure if I've ever been cheated on, but I suspect that one of my exes did.

OK, here's why I will never forgive a cheater. One of my earliest childhood memories is of me being out in the yard playing with the son of my mom's best friend (I was 3 or 4). When we tried to go back into the house, the door was locked! I know that he was also seeing the woman that ended up as my step mother at the same time (as well as still being with my mom). Ironically, all 3 got pregnant at the same time (my mom lost the baby, my step mom had a tubular pregnancy and the third didn't know if dad or her husband was the father but decided to stay with hubby). Shortly after, my mom finally left my dad for good. The worst part, I heard about the babies as an adult from the woman my dad was cheating on my step mom with!

As a teen, I had some emotional problems and through therapy I was able to see the pattern. I guess I didn't learn enough because my ex husband didn't cheat on me but was a lot like my dad in many other ways. My FH is about as opposite of my dad as anyone can get!

My high school boyfriend cheated on me, and two of my friends walked in on him. He proceeded to tell them that they didn't need to make a big deal about it, because he didn't think I would mind...Umm, gag...My friends gave him two days to tell me, then ended up telling me on valentines day, while I was out with him. I was so pissed. However, I was also a total idiot and took him back and wasted another year and a half of me life.. You live and learn..

All toilets lead to the ocean. Maybe the fish lived. My second ever boyfriend was my friend b4 we started dating. Anyway he was a senior and leaving for college. I tried to break up with him before he left. he was a cheater before, I figured he would cheat when we were seperated but we could stay friends. Well he begged me told me he loved me blahblahblah. So we stayed together. I took an 11 hour Amtrack to go visit him. He doesn't come to pick me up. I had to call another friend up there. The asshole mfer had another gfriiend in college and didnt have the balls to tell me. The worst part...he slept with me while I was up there, and one of his idiot friends got tricked into telling me. I almodt broke his nose when he came home for Thanksgiving. Too bad I missed

My "first" and I were together 2 years in HS before he moved to Georgia in senior year after his dad passed... He had to finish school there with his mom... Then come back to CA... Welllllll we were still together.... And my best friend from kindergarten moved to Georgia in 4th grade & we were still friends....

So one day she calls me to tell me that her moms new bf came over.... And brought his daughter. The daughter saw a pic of me and my ex and said "that looks like Justin" and my friend told her "how do you know Justin?" The girl told her... "That's my new bf... Wait how do you have a picture of him..and who is that broad"

Needless to say his ass got dumped... And they now have a kid and he cheated on her...

Oh karma.

Although I've never been cheated on - my ex bf was extremely emotionally abusive to me (and I was dumb enough to stay with him for 2.5 years) We were friends back in high school..then lost touch after he moved. When I was 18 we re-connected and started dating. At first everything was fine - but then I noticed he was VERY jealous and insecure and he would take it out on ME! If I went out with my girls he would blow up my phone or if I got home later than I said I would he would accuse me of being out with another guy (which I wasn't!) Although he never hit me, he would constantly break things and even punch holes in the wall when he was mad at me..I've had things thrown at me as well. He would CONSTANTLY say how much he loved/cared about me and claim that I didn't love him enough..crazy! Basically, his insecurities and obsessiveness caused him to be extremely abusive and mean. I finally broke up with him when I was 20 yrs old because I had enough!

The last proper boyfriend I had before my FH was cheating with his ex. He would give me excuses that he couldn't see me because he "had to tidy his room" (Um, he was 25!), needed to go and visit his mum's sick cat, and my particular favourite "needed to be alone with the sea"!! He would also occasionally tell me he was staying at a "uni mate's house", and went on holiday for a week with a "uni mate". Needless to say I found out that said "uni mate" was his ex. He tried to make out like he hadn't done anything wrong, and hadn't even slept well at her house because she kept coming into the room (!) but if he didn't think he was doing anything wrong, then why lie about who it was?!

I eventually saw the light when he told me that he wasn't ever going to be in love with me but wanted to keep seeing me anyway. Like I should consent to be a distraction until someone better came along.

I can laugh about how ridiculous it all was now, but I was a wreck at the time.

I had been dating my first boyfriend for 3 months when he cheated on me. He came out with it on his own so I was glad for the honesty. He was sorry and still wanted to be with me. I wish he had ended it because the entire relationship I was cheating on him with different people. Not sleeping with, I would just make out with them and get them to buy me presents.

My EX and I had a long distance relationship for 1 1/2 years before I relocated to be closer to him (yes, dumbest thing I ever have done!)...

Come to find out he did not consider us a "couple" until about 6 months before we ended our three year relationship...

He had been sleeping with other girls all along - I caught him eventually and he told me that quote unquote "shouldn't be worried because he used protection MOST of the time"

Needless to say for that and that he was an @ss - he got booted to the curb...kicker of the whole story -

After we broke up, he proposed to me via text (had to block him because he was cray-cray) and then started texting my mother about how much he messed up and how much I meant to him and how he wanted to marry me....