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Jillian
Super September 2014

Crazy ex cheating stories?!

Jillian, on November 7, 2013 at 4:05 PM

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I'LL START! My ex in HS and I had been dating for 3 years when he went to Cabo for Spring Break. I had a bad feeling the whole trip but he swore up and down nothing happened. Fast forward six months, some random DUDE messaged me on fb and informed me that my ex bf and his best friend had forced some...

I'LL START!

My ex in HS and I had been dating for 3 years when he went to Cabo for Spring Break. I had a bad feeling the whole trip but he swore up and down nothing happened. Fast forward six months, some random DUDE messaged me on fb and informed me that my ex bf and his best friend had forced some blacked out girl in cabo to give them both bj's. This guy happened to make friends with my boyfriend on the trip and noticed his relationship status when they became fb friends. He also informed me that he witnessed my ex doing a little something with his fingers to a girl on the dance floor and then decided to wipe it on one of his other buddies faces, horrifying. I broke up with him as soon as I found out that night. He was wasted at the time, he threw a lamp and a pillow at me and told ME that I ruined HIS life.

Your turn!!

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  • SunshineJenn
    Master August 2014
    SunshineJenn ·
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    I cheated on almost all of my boyfriends (including ex-fiance) and only one found out, and that's because he went through my computer LOL (the ex-fiance).

    I did not cheat on people who treated me well. Except for one, and I came clean and broke up with him right away. He actually forgave me for it because I came clean.

    I actually hooked up with Lee while I was still with the douche.

    That said, all the assholes I've dated cheated on me first. So they deserved it. My first serious boyfriend used to go clubbing and then get pages from his booty calls while he was with me. Things like "143" and "****" for those who remember the days of pagers.

    I have never cheated on Lee. I've never even had the urge and that's one reason I'm marrying him.

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  • ~Neschi~
    Super September 2014
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    I met my ex in college my junior year. He was also really emotionally abusive, although I never even realized it at the time. After being together 4 years and buying a house together, I went back home to visit my family in another city. The second day I'm there, he calls me to tell me we should see other people. I'm like wtf, we own a house together, it's not like this relationship is new. I look up his phone records since we had a family plan and see he's been talking to one of his high school friends most nights since I left till 2 AM. Turns out the other nights she was there with him sleeping in MY bed. Gross. I went back, packed up all his crap and sent him back to his parents. He also was spending money from our joint savings account to buy this girl stuff. I did get a chance to punch him in the face repeatedly, so I take comfort in that whenever he still pisses me off (We still own the house together). I ended up moving back home and that's when my FH and I reconnected. Smiley smile

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  • Julisa
    Super July 2014
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    I got married to my ex at 18yrs old. After 9 1/2 yrs of marriage and 2 kids he tells me out of nowhere he wasnt in love with me anymore, i wasnt attractive and he just wanted to move out. I was heartborken i asked him over and over if there was anyone else and he insisted there wasnt.. I wasnt convinced so i started to look at his cell records and found a familiar phone # over and over at all times of the day.. 1 am 2 am 3 am all times.. so nxt day i call from my work phone and its who i thought it was... My childhood friends wife. I hung up and she kept calling my number, im almost positive she knew it was me. They used to come over all the time for dinner and we would go out as couples pretty often.. When confronted all he did was deny it and get angry for me snooping around. 1 month later we each moved out and that was that.. 3 months later that other couple divorced as well.

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  • Valerie
    VIP September 2013
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    My story is slightly different. I worked with a guy who was constantly throwing innuendos at me. I kept brushing it off, trying to keep polite office politics. Final straw was when he texted me at 12 am, while he was in Vegas, with his wife, who was sleeping and asked me if I would sleep with him. Asshole. I've also found out that he's dropped his pants in front of another co-worker at her office.

    He wonders why I cut off all contact......

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  • J
    Dedicated September 2014
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    My ex-FI: we had just canceled our wedding with only 6 months to go so we could try and work on our relationship without the pressure of getting married. He left his email account open when I logged onto the computer and I was admittedly snooping but had no suspicions of him cheating...just thought maybe he'd been venting to people about our relationship and I'd find some of those types of emails. I found that he had started talking to girls on craigslist the same week he had proposed to me. Very sexual emails were exchanged, he denies he actually met anyone. So glad I did not marry him. We didn't bother to work on things after I found this out.

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  • mscountry
    Master July 2014
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    My first ever boyfriend when i was 15 told me he was saving his self for marriage like i was. We dated for less then a year. then a friend of our (my FH) said he was going to be in Wyoming with his family and was going to hang out with him, the next day i get a message from boyfriend's brother he had been in a fight with Lee, i thought it was for a stupid reason like one beat the other in the rodeo. No he a caught him with another girl and Lee beat the crap out of him because he told him that i would not sleep with so he found some that would. Months later i found out he had three other girls that were pregnant by him. He had to take a DNA test with 10 other guys to find if the baby of the girl he was caught with was his.

    A few months after i started dating Lee i sent him one final message that i was now with Lee, happy and had tossed my purity ring out the window. He told his SIL who is my best friend that he guessed if he had waited he would have gotten what he wanted.

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  • Kate
    Master December 2013
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    It's a long story, but before FH i had dated a guy for a few years and lived with him for 2 years. He was on a work trip and I was using his computer (with his permission) and all these notices kept popping up from his email and messenger. I clicked on one of them and opened pandora's box of cheating. Not only did he have personals ads and creepy Craigslist "casual encounters" ads with pictures that he had taken IN OUR BEDROOM and advertising OUR HOT TUB, but I found communications with the hotel he was staying at on his "work trip" that referenced his "girlfriend's preference for a quiet room to read". I, his ACTUAL girlfriend, was in Chicago and had never visited that particular country before. So, not only was creeping for kinky ladies, he was on vacation with another girl in Europe.

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  • Samarah
    Devoted October 2015
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    I was with a guy in HS for almost 2yrs. In these 2yrs he had controlled who I was friends with, by always wanting to be there when I hung out with people. He got angry if I didn't attend his swimming practices. Towards the end of our relationship, he slept with a girl and let her lay down on MY side of the bed. Then called me that night and told me that she needed a place to crash because she missed her bus. I didn't know he'd been cheating on me...so I agreed. The next day the girl told me about how they had sex, & like all women, I asked him about it. He said it was horrible and that he couldn't get it up because he didn't like her like that. I dumped him three days later, then he told me that he ripped the condom the last time we'd has sex and chances are I was going to have his baby, I got back with him until I got my period. After that he dated my half-sister as a way to get revenge. His entire family says they miss me and loved me. Joke's on him.

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