So my fiancé is asking his best man (his younger brother) to be his best man today and the 3 other groomsman through out the next week. Him and his friends have known each other for many years and all have a very crude and I'll say gross sense of humor when they are with each other. So FH made these boxes to ask each of them. It includes a cigar (in picture there's a bud light which is for his brother who does not smoke) and a bag of candy penises. He also put an American flag because why not. The card with Uncle Sam is from etsy. On the back of the card he nicely asked the person to be his groomsmen. Then wrote, "if you accept, enjoy this cigar/beer. If not, eat a bag of dicks. " Not necessarily the sweetest but so very him and them. I'm nervous that it's much but these are his best friends and so them so I'm going along with it.
Just thought I'd share!!!