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Devoted June 2022

Cutting Back Guest List

Grace, on February 10, 2022 at 8:06 AM

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My FH and I were already having a considerably small wedding with only about 70 people making the list. Lately I’ve been feeling overwhelmed even with that “small” number. Last night, my FH and I wrote down the twenty people that we each wanted without looking at our original list. Now it’s down...
My FH and I were already having a considerably small wedding with only about 70 people making the list. Lately I’ve been feeling overwhelmed even with that “small” number. Last night, my FH and I wrote down the twenty people that we each wanted without looking at our original list. Now it’s down from 70 to 51. This mostly just eliminated family we felt we had to invite and coworkers from the job he left right before we got engaged. We are sooooo much happier now that it’s just the essential people. This is less a call for advice and more a reminder to look over your list and make sure it’s who you really want there and not who you feel like you have to invite!

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    Devoted June 2022
    Grace ·
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    Very relatable! 😂 We had a point where we thought about just getting married in front of close family because the thought of getting married in front of a lot of people gives me anxiety. It should be something intimate!
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  • Sine
    Devoted March 2022
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    YES!!! We had discussed only inviting a few people to the ceremony and then everyone to the reception but we didn't want to offend people so we invited everyone to both with the option to just go straight to the reception if they choose.
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    Devoted June 2022
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    That’s exactly what we did! We decided it would be way too complicated to send out two invitations and pick and choose who would be invited to what
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