Don't burn me at the stake for this! I know it's a crude move on our part, but these are guests that we haven't spoken to in some time. Now that COVID has made that time even longer, it has made it almost strange to invite them. Yes, we should have thought about this before sending Save the Dates (twice...), but has anyone else done this? Or am I the only ass hole out here... hopefully not.
Anyway, if anybody has or can give some input on what they did, I'd love to hear! Did you mail them something? Did you just not send an invite and leave it at that? Did you Facebook message them? I'd like to give them some kind of notice so they aren't left wondering when the invite is coming, but I'd rather not do a mailing to them. I am also considering the fact that our venue may limit the number of guests and this would help that burden. In short, I just would like a nice way to say "Sorry you're uninvited". OR do I just leave it and accept our fate.