So my dad texted me a month ago asking if he was walking me down the aisle and I told him I'm not sure yet and then he never texted me back . It's been a month and my step mom said it's because he's so hurt by what I said . My dad didn't come back into my life until I was a sophomore in high school and when he comes to town he never tells me or bothers to come see me . I always find out he was in town after he leaves to go back home. He always says he's gonna come visit me and my daughters but ALWAYS BAILS the day he's supposed to come . My step dad has been in my life since I was little but me and him aren't that close i guess you can say and I can't have both of them because they hate each other . I feel like i should just walk by myself or have my daughters walk with me or something . I just dont want to hurt anyone's feelings 🙃