Fast forward 20 years, and they are now divorced. My ex- husband cheated on her as well and has since married that woman. I have not met her, but of course she will be at the wedding- I have no problem with that.
My daughter asked her ex-stepsister to be one of her Bridesmaids, okay, accepted that. My daughter has invited her ex- stepmother to the wedding. I am pretty upset about it, as I told her when we talked about guest lists and she brought it up, that I did not want to invite her- thought it would be awkward and too many bad memories.
So can you imagine the scene? It’s going to the ex- wives club! Wife number one ( me), ex-wife #2 and current wife #3. The DW wedding is expensive and a vacation, it’s not like a typical wedding- a few hours of having to be courteous.
I have been looking forward to this day and now I just feel like it will be awkward and sad. Not sure what To do. Don’t really want to give an ultimatum to my daughter me or her, my husband says it’s within my right to say okay if you want the wedding a certain way- then you pay for it. My daughter is almost 29 and fiancé is 31. Thoughts? Am I wrong to feel miffed?