Have any of you had to uninvite family members or friends to your wedding?
I recently had to do this to 3 different family members and it sucks. My brother is incredibly toxic and has been for many years. Our relationship is hot and cold. Basically I talk to him when he isn't acting crazy but as soon as he does, I set boundaries and distance myself from him. I originally invited him out of obligation and because I wanted my niece to be at my wedding. Recently he has really gone off the deep end. I've tried to help him for years but he refuses to be willing to get help and has now turned on me with a vengeance. I know cutting him off is the only option at this point but dang if it's not hard and sad.
I also had to do this with an Uncle who was mistreating me and a cousin who has taken my brother's side after not communicating with our family for years. Now she's all up in the drama stirring it up to seemingly use it as an excuse to bring up all her incommunicated feelings. Ugh.
I hate that this is all happening before my wedding. I'm sad. Really sad. I'm also way more stressed because of it. I have so much going on in these next 3 months. At the end of the day though, I only want people at my wedding who love and support myself and my fella this big step we are taking. Thanks for reading if you got this far.
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