Hi All-
I’d first like to say that I want to do as much as I can for my friend who is getting married. She is a great friend and was there for me, but her bachelorette that is 7 months away is causing a lot of stress on me. Her maid of honor seems to be all over the place and not really taking into consideration the price of things. Her bachelorette is in a location that isn’t very popular. So what that means is the flights are expensive, with a lot of stops along the way (5 hours when a straight flight would be one hour) and the other option would be driving 5 hours. As someone who has driving anxiety, usually driving is not an option for me, but also the idea of being on a 5 hour flight is also not ideal. I also am struggling with flying because since there are not a lot of options, I’d have to take Friday off, which is a bummer because I already have to take two days off for her Friday wedding. I am only given 4 discretionary days off a year, so I’d be giving up nearly all of them in the first two months of work for her wedding! The Airbnb alone is $400 which I thought was already a little steep for two nights. And her sister wants to spend another $500 on decor and matching shirts, so that would be another $100 on top of the air bnb. So $500 in total not including drinks, food, transportation…I have spoken out that I’d like not to surpass $500 if possible, but honestly now the whole thing is stressing me out. I’ve thought of just going for one night, and then buying ONE shirt instead of the whole outfit they want matching to cut the cost, but now the traveling portion is also stressful. I want to be a good bridesmaid and be there for her as much as she was for my wedding, but I think this bachelorette is more difficult than it needs to be. I am also trying not to be a stickler because I’m not technically HURTING with money at the moment, but I’m also can’t fathom spending almost $800 dollars for a weekend. Her maid of honor just starts putting things in her cart and expecting everyone time pitch in… Am I micro managing or are these feelings valid?
Thank you!!
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