Hello all!
So my fiancé and I got engaged January 2020! We set our date about two weeks after getting engaged and booked our venue and wedding for September 18, 2021. No more than a month after my
Cousin got engaged. That slightly set me off and my only hope was that she didn’t book her wedding for the same month as mine. I expressed those feelings to her. Well, surprise... she booked her wedding two weeks before mine. This of course caused me to feel very hurt and devastated. I expressed my anger about it towards her, but she read the message, didn’t respond and talked to her mom about it who then spoke to my mom. I have out of town guests who we now need to help find somewhere to stay for two weeks insteadOf one weekend. Also, my bachelorette party was planned for the weekend of her wedding (where I’m from it’s a long weekend) and we were planning on driving to Minneapolis for the weekend to celebrate. My mother has told me she will not go to my bachelorette so she can attend my cousins wedding and now I can’t invite the cousins I wanted to invite because they will be going to myCousins wedding. I just feel very defeated at this point. My family has taken my cousins side and has saidI’m being over dramatic and that she has every right to take that date.. I get that I get only one day.. but to get engaged right after me and then to plan her weddingTwo weeks before mine after I expressed how I felt.. I am not sure what to do at this point. Some feedback would be great