Hi guys! A little backstory - destination weddings run deep in my family/friends circle. They're common and not frowned upon, but also tend to be on the lower end [cost wise] of DW- meaning nobody has gone to Italy, or picked super expensive hotels etc.
That being said, I feel very weird [but also excited because all of my favorite women in one place!] about having a bridal shower. Both my mom and FMIL are bent on having one, and many of my friends have encouraged me to "do all the things" but I can't help but wonder if I will come off greedy. Personally, I always buy a gift when I attend [or don't] a wedding, destination or not, so I don' t know why this is giving me so much anxiety!
More info: our registry is 90% $50 and under gifts. We have two gifts that are around $100-$120 and can be group-gifted. Should I just leave my registry link off of the invitation to avoid looking like a gift is required? I also don't want people to go out and buy us random stuff because we didn't provide any registry details. So...this is the loop I'm stuck in lol.
What would you do? Thoughts on if you were invited to a DW and bridal shower? Not having the shower is not an option.
1. Do a regular bridal shower and don't worry about what anyone will think
2. Leave registry off of invitations [risk of getting unwanted gifts? worth it?]
3. Send regular invites. Reach out to those who are attending both wedding and bridal and let them know that gifts are not necessary as their presence at the wedding is PLENTY
4. other