My DH talks about how he learned looks aren't everything in a relationship, that he learned that w/his exes. He tells me that I'm the hottest women he has been with, but I'm starting to doubt that. I know it may not matter, but I don't want to be a "downgrade" just because he likes my personality. I outright asked him if I was a downgrade and he tells me he got the whole package. This I don't understand, cause why bring it up in the 1st place? I tell him the same thing about my ex (just to kind of get a reaction out of him). It also doesn't help that awhile ago his friend called his 1st ex really hot and he didn't defend me saying I was better looking.