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ReallyAReeves
Dedicated July 2017

Did or do you think your SO will cry on your wedding day when walking down the isle/ first look?

ReallyAReeves, on April 16, 2017 at 10:53 PM

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Just curious and for fun! Did your husband cry or do you think he will if you are not yet married yet? My fiancé and I are doing a first look before our ceremony and think we both will cry because we will be so caught up in the moment of our wedding day!

Just curious and for fun! Did your husband cry or do you think he will if you are not yet married yet?

My fiancé and I are doing a first look before our ceremony and think we both will cry because we will be so caught up in the moment of our wedding day!

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  • Heidi
    Super October 2017
    Heidi ·
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    I'm about 99.99% sure I will be crying.

    However, I've never seen FH cry (the closest I got was when I threw him a surprise birthday party two years ago...he welled up then, but no real tears lol). He SAYS he won't cry but I think there's a 50/50 chance he will actually cry. If not during the first look/aisle/ceremony, then definitely with his mother/son dance. We'll see! lol

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley ·
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    He's not much of a crier so I don't think he will, but I'm worried about me. I cry at literally everything,

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  • Meaghan
    VIP November 2017
    Meaghan ·
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    He better! Lol no but really I think he will. He said his goal is to make everyone cry (we are having 20 people at the wedding). He is a big softy and I expect the whole room to be crying, especially him.

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  • August bride
    Super August 2017
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    I don't think so, but I will probably get anxious and feel like I have to pee like I do when getting on a fast ride at an amusement park

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  • Tia & Lee
    Dedicated October 2018
    Tia & Lee ·
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    I have no doubt in my mind that I will be a sobbing mess, considering I'm an extremely emotional person. I think FH will probably tear up a bit, his eyes always get watery when he sees me cry.

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
    Sara ·
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    I've never seen FH cry so most likely not, but I'm ok with that as long as he thinks i look amazing in my dress!

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  • soontobeRTR
    Expert February 2017
    soontobeRTR ·
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    Mine warned me that he probably would NOT cry so I wouldn't be disappointed, but then he did get misty eyed. Not like crying crying, but I could see tears in his eyes during our first look. We both got a tiny bit teary during the ceremony but no actual tears.

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  • JanissC.
    Super April 2018
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    We both cried when he proposed, so I know we definitely will. I just hope that we can keep it together.

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  • Sharon
    Expert April 2017
    Sharon ·
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    I probably will. I don't think he will. He has only cried in front of me once. He is afraid i will be mad if he doesn't cry lol

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  • K
    Super March 2018
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    I don't think he will. Which is fine because I cry when he cries and I don't want to look like a mess. Lol.

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  • AD2AP
    VIP June 2018
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    I don't think mine will cry at all. He's just not that type of person. I've only seen him cry twice in our five years of dating.

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  • Lakyn
    Devoted October 2017
    Lakyn ·
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    FH..... he is an interesting human. I really don't know... He didn't cry at his mom's funeral, but he cries when he talks about her. Didn't cry when his brother died or at the funeral, but did when he sent me home so that he could be with his family (we weren't official at the time and he didn't want to explain me to them after a funeral). He didn't cry when he proposed, but he cried when we used to fight. Sometimes he'll cry if I'm crying. And I'll probably cry because that's what I do. So.... maybe?

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  • MrsDrum
    Master June 2017
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    I don't think he will but I probably will.

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  • Jessi
    VIP December 2017
    Jessi ·
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    Considering mine cried for 20 minutes when I tried on my dress, I'm going to go with a strong yes! I wasn't going to do a first look, but after that I called the photographer to add it in. Lol

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  • Miranda
    Dedicated November 2018
    Miranda ·
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    Him and I both know he will! Which will of course make me too!

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  • Shy-Bull
    VIP March 2017
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    Actually, doing a first look helped not cry walking down the aisle. At that point, we were both so damn excited and it was still very emotional, but no tears from either of us.

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  • Keisha
    Master September 2018
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    He's going to be a ball of nerves that day. He will probably throw up and have a panic attack. We both know he will cry, it's a given. I told him he better get a boner when I'm walking down the aisle though lol. He'll be ok once we are standing together. I'll crack a joke and he will relax.

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  • Space Princess
    VIP April 2017
    Space Princess ·
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    I think my FH will, that is why I wanted a first look. But he doesn't, so we will see.

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  • A.Magill.Since.May
    Master May 2018
    A.Magill.Since.May ·
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    I don't think so. Neither of us are very big on tears, and I think we're both too nervous in front of crowds to let emotions get the best of us.

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  • Leah
    VIP July 2017
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    I don't know. For either of us. I'm not a big crier, but maybe I will in the moment lol. I can sort of see FH getting teary though.

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