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Maren
Champion October 2021

Did you announce your engagement on social media before telling your family?

Maren, on September 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Parties and Events 74

Here’s a shocking stat - in 2017, 10% of parents found out about their kid's engagement via social media! Did you share your proposal & engagement on your twitter, instagram, or facebook before telling your family? Or did you make sure your family was the first to know before your social media...

Here’s a shocking stat - in 2017, 10% of parents found out about their kid's engagement via social media! Did you share your proposal & engagement on your twitter, instagram, or facebook before telling your family? Or did you make sure your family was the first to know before your social media announcement??

Time to confess! Are you innocent or guilty?


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74 Comments

  • DC Wife 10.27.18
    Master October 2018
    DC Wife 10.27.18 ·
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    Heck no! My Mom would have karate chopped me in the neck!!

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    We told very close people first (which was maybe like 5 or 6) and posted it on FB. A lot of our family members have never been there for us throughout our relationship so they had to find out like everyone else. A lot of them still haven't been personally told yet, and I have no intentions of doing so. I am not inviting a lot of family (we're having an intimate wedding) and neither is FH, so what's the point of us telling people about our wedding if we don't intend on inviting them, you know? But yeah, it's totally cool for us. It works out great!!!

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  • Maren
    Champion October 2021
    Maren ·
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    Hahaha! Smiley xd Well that's good you avoided that outcome, then, and told her first!

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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Innocent. We made sure and hit every single house of our immediate families the day he proposed and then we posted it for our extended families and friends.

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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    Our parents were the first to know, but they knew it was coming (he had the ring for 2.5 months before proposing!!!) Also told my brother, grandparents FH's grandparents, and aunts & uncles, but they all knew it was happening. We waited a few days before posting on FB, because I wanted to make sure we told all of the ones we needed to first.

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  • Amanda
    Savvy April 2020
    Amanda ·
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    I am totally innocent because when my parents found out I was moving to another state last year via social media, I had to do damage control. This time I'm totally in the clear on this one.

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  • Maren
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    Maren ·
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    Hi Mikayla! That's great that everyone knew it was coming. Wow, 2.5 months! He had it all planned out! Smiley heart So sweet!

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    My family knew before I did, as well as my best friend. He asked their permission the day of (my family kind of have a hard time keeping secrets lol) what really made me emotional was that he not only asked my mom but he asked my two brothers and sister (I don’t have a relationship with my father)
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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
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    My whole immediate family knew because he had already talked to them and I still live with them so we went back to my house after he proposed and celebrated with them! We posted on social media that same night lol!
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  • Brittany
    Savvy July 2019
    Brittany ·
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    One of our friends posted about it before we had the chance to call anyone...

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  • Maren
    Champion October 2021
    Maren ·
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    Aww! That's so sweet, Stephanie. Smiley heart He involved everyone's blessings before proposing, that's great. Smiley heart

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  • Candi
    Super September 2030
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    NO! I'd never do this.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    Nope. I've never announced it on social media. i'm not that person. I've mentioned it a time or two but a big announcement? nope

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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
    Natalia ·
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    Innocent! Our parents knew before my FH did it, anyway. But we were on vacation in Reykjavik, so we held off with the social media until we got back home.

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