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Libby
Dedicated June 2019

Did you know Bridesmaidzilla exists?

Libby, on May 31, 2019 at 8:43 PM

Posted in Family and Relationships 28

Because I sure as heck didn’t! Holy moly! I had posted in the past about a drama creator and was on the fence about asking her to exist the wedding group. Well, it has happened. I never imagined hay I would actually have to kick someone out of my bridal party, because I’m not that kind of person....
Because I sure as heck didn’t! Holy moly!

I had posted in the past about a drama creator and was on the fence about asking her to exist the wedding group. Well, it has happened. I never imagined hay I would actually have to kick someone out of my bridal party, because I’m not that kind of person. But I was recently put in a horrible situation that made it so I could only ask her to get lost - from the wedding and my life.

Now, I’m faced with a dilemma. This girl is bad mouthing me, which isn’t a huge concern because I know those who truly love and know me would not believe it for a millisecond. She has told me that I “have to” reimburse her for her bridesmaid dress and if I do not do so, she will be sending me to small claims court to deal with it.

After discussing all of this with future hubby, family and my close girlfriend, I’ve decided I will not. I do not feel that I am responsible for the cost of her dress as she put me in This situation where I had to ask her to leave.

What are all your thoughts on this? Ever been in this situation? I am flabbergasted!

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  • Libby
    Dedicated June 2019
    Libby ·
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    Right! There was no contract. It was her own decision to chose this dress too, it just had to be a specific color.
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  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    You should probably block out her full name and address from the image.
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  • MrsJohansson
    Expert June 2019
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    Not sorry to be harsh but I'd reconsider who you are calling a drama creator and what an adult really means. You posted screenshots with someone's address on a forum that is read worldwide! Outrageous..


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  • Libby
    Dedicated June 2019
    Libby ·
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    I’d like to have this discussion removed if possible. It was an accident including personal information. Can anyone help me with this? Flag it?
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  • J
    August 2019
    Jackie ·
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    This is unfortunate all around. I’ve seen my fair share of both bride and bridesmaid “zillas” It never ends well. However, the expenses that a bridesmaid is asked/expected to take on for being in a wedding is a lot. If you have removed her as a bridesmaid, it is customary to reimburse her for any cost and get back any items..dress, shoes, robes...whatever the item specific for the wedding. Hopefully one day you two can work out your differences and put this behind you. Stop bashing and trashing each other, that’s so childish, and move on. Posting her private information was extremely low, I’m starting to see what the issue may be. Will the real “zilla” please stand up!
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    August 2019
    Jackie ·
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    It cost practically nothing to go to small claims court. Asking someone to take on expenses to be in ones wedding might as well be a contract. She should get the dress back and reimburse her. It’s the right thing to do.
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  • Libby
    Dedicated June 2019
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    You’re right, it is unfortunate all around. It was an accident including personal information which has thankfully been removed. Unfortunately, I do not see us ever working this out - I have tried in the past from a similar situation with her and I won’t put myself through it again. Some friendships aren’t meant to be.
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  • Libby
    Dedicated June 2019
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    Thanks everybody for the help/suggestions. I’m moving on from this discussion 👋🏼
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